The trust we keep
Code of conduct.
Membership is a trust. These are the standards every member agrees to uphold. Breaking them is grounds for removal.
- 01Treat every member with respect, honesty, and discretion.
- 02Use this network for genuine support — not for romantic pursuit, recruitment, or self-promotion.
- 03Keep private what is shared in private. Never leak member information.
- 04Represent yourself truthfully. Misrepresenting identity is grounds for removal.
- 05Do not misrepresent another member's words, beliefs, or intentions — to them, to others, or in public.
- 06Do not initiate sectarian attacks or unsolicited theological debate.
- 07Do not harass, intimidate, or pressure other members.
- 08Do not use the network for fundraising, donation requests, or business solicitation. First-message donation asks are grounds for immediate removal.
- 09Meeting another member in real life is at your own discretion and risk. Verify before you travel, host, or share private details.
- 10When in doubt, choose silence and patience over reaction.
Members who break these standards may be warned, suspended, or removed depending on severity. We act quietly and decisively.